He calls it UNmarketing. I like the way he thinks.

"Bloggers blog because they have a passion for something." I LOVE this. And I heard it from one of the greatest speakers I have yet to hear...Scott Stratten, President and author of UnMarketing, in the basement of Blueberry Hill...otherwise known as The Duck Room. I was there with @StLScialMedia  (Elizabeth Liebel), the one other in my life whom I can relate to 100% when it comes to a passion for all things social media, PR and marketing. 
The basis of this whole UnMarketing concept, is simply to go back to the basics. UNlearn what you've learned already. Marketing via Facebook, Twitter and other forms of social media should not be brain science. It's easy, and if not correctly, it's an amazing way to market not only yourself, but your company or your business...which leads me to exactly what I am doing today. As many of you very well know, I am a social media addict. If I'm not signed on to both Twitter and Facebook on my computer, I'm always signed on on my iPhone. I update my own personal Twitter account possibly more than one should...if that's even possible?! I'm marketing myself. "We don't choose to market, we're marketing all the time." Not only do I want to share my life and interests with  my family and friends and others in cyberspace, but I am networking and meeting so many great new people and learning so many great new things to help me with what I am currently doing and to get exactly where I want to be in the future. I currently manage all of the social media accounts for my family's company, Performance Plus, Inc., and there is way more to actually making it work than putting up a new post here and there. Thanks to UnMarketing, I've learned more great new strategies to keep things growing from tonight's UnMarketing Unbook Tour in the Loop. SO glad Mr. Stratten made a visit to STL! Here are some of my tweets from some of the great statements he made tonight...it's the best way to explain some of the awesome stuff I learned, simply put. I tweet a lot as it is...imagine my fingers to that phone all night tonight! And, Mr. Stratten, if you happen to be reading...I am obsessed with your I # STL T-shirt and am dying to have one in pink. I'm assuming you have yours made for each city you visit? I'm going to need to figure out how to get one of these for myself : ) 
I am quite possibly obsessed with social media. 


"We used to call it talking." : )

Tonight's Twitter Timeline: 

Oh no barely any service in the duck room!! #smcstl
Sitting front row with @Stlscialmedia waiting for this show to get started!! #smcstl
@StLScialMedia woooo #smcstl so glad we're here together!!! : )
Thanks @stlscialmedia my nametag says @KaseyADPi. Should I be embarrassed?! #smcstl
@GordonSteffens just got a mention on the screen at the @Unmarketing #unbook tour. Sweet!! : ) #smcstl
@stlscialmedia I think I'll write a book while the kids are at school#smcstl
Dying phone. So Not good!! #smcstl
Missing "Jingle All The Way" on HBO Family for @unmarketingtonight. It better be on demand.
@StLScialMedia @haderryt Totally hitting on me. In the Duck Room. #smcstl
I # STL. Obsessed! I love this!! #smcstl
Marketing is not a task. #smcstl
We don't choose to market. Were marketing all the time. #smcstl
People dont spread meh. People spread Awesome. Thanks for the sign : ) #smcstl
You blog when youve got Something to say. People blog because they have a passion #smcstl
Why we spread emotion hasn't changed. How we spread emotion has changed. #smcstl
I literally love social media #smcstl
Lets get better at now before we look at tomorrow. #smcstl
Don't write frequently; write awesome #smcstl
A list is more valuable than a click #smcstl
Social media just amplifies things. It doesn't make Anything better#smcstl
Social media success doesn't exist #smcstl
Agreed! “@StLScialMedia: This stuff is too good to try to tweet everything I love the @unmarketing tour #smcstl”
Know, like, trust. Social media increases all 3 of these things#smcstl
We've got to learn to grow to 40 first before we grow to 40,000#smcstl
Getting retweeted builds follows but replies build relationships#smcstl
We used to call it talking. Ha #smcstl
Should we use it? Should we not!!? #smcstl
Four popped collars...that's a quad pop ha love this! #smcstl
@stlscialmedia We may or may not have been the mannequins tonight haha
It takes 1000 tweets to build a reputation and one to ruin it #smcstl
The best way to get Twitter followers is to not try to get them#smcstl
I too am really bad at turning Twitter off!! #smcstl
RT @JavaSTL: Quote: "@pistl is the greatest pizza in the world...bring it #Chicago" -@unmarketing #smcstl
The internets awesome and when you piss off a geek it rules. Haha love this #smcstl
If you don't have time for your medium, remove yourself from the medium. @unmarketing #SMCSTL
I loved everything about tonight. I was totally in my element. #smcstl
And I am now dying for a pink I # STL Tshirt. Where can I find this?#smcstl #ilovesocialmedia

For those non-Twitter users out there, you probably have no idea how to even follow this...but for those of you who do, Follow me!! (@KaseyADPi) : ) 

Living in a Facebook world

WOW! It has been way too long since I have been able to post anything! Life has been SO busy lately! But do you know what I do indeed of course find the time for? Facebook (and Twitter too of course). My work revolves around social media (Facebook and Twitter), and so does my life. I have an iPhone with both Facebook and Twitter always in the palm of my hand. I am a social media fanatic, and my family, fiance and all of my friends know that about me. One of my favorite things about Twitter especially is that I can write whatever I want, when I want to. I am one of those people that has a lot of random thoughts constantly running through my mind, and quite honestly, I want to express them. What better way than by writing a quick Twitter update!? I LOVE to write and wish so badly that I had more time to do it (ie. I haven't had time to write a full blog post apparently since September), but something such as Twitter still gives me the option to do just that in the limited amount of time that I have literally in the palm of my hand. What more could I ask for!? I'm sure so many of you saw Social Network the weekend it came out last month. I know I had been counting down the days to see it. It bewilders me to think that we really and truly are living in a world of Facebook and social media, but I'll be honest, I love every bit of it. This is a viral economy. It can certainly be dangerous at times if not handled in the proper manner, but if it's all used the right way, it can be AWESOME in so many ways! My title at work is Marketing Communications Coordinator. I do the social media. How crazy is it that we know have jobs everywhere consisting of Facebooking, tweeting and blogging all day? Facebook is powerful. I oftentimes wonder what our lives would be like today if we didn't have Facebook to turn to when we're bored, when we want to tell all of our 'friends' "what's on our minds", when we want to promote things, when we want to buy and sell things, when we want to show off pictures of what a fun weekend we had, when we want to promote our business or our product? What would we be doing? I try to think back on when I was in high school and Facebook had just become a new phenomenon, yet still not one big enough for all of us to catch on to, but boy did we ever catch on quickly. Instead of saying "call me" today...we tell people to "Facebook" us. Someone created this website (we all know the story), and it turned into a means of living for many (let's be honest...all) of us today. Tonight, I got a FB friend request from someone whom I have not talked to in several years...took me a while to actually realize who it was. I turned to Facebook where I was going to search the name...not realizing that I was already looking at my friend request. My point is...I don't even turn to Google or anything else, I automatically revert everything back to Facebook. It's a common search engine today. It's crazy! If you ever want to know what's going on...just check the newsfeed and you're quick to figure it out. Society and the way it's run change so quickly from time to time, but who knew this is what it would someday be like? The definition of all of us would be simply put by a profile page with photos and a 'wall.' I think it's awesome. I wouldn't have it any other way because there is so much potential in every aspect of it. I'm anxious to see how much further it can even possibly get. Because I'm sure there's more. There always is. There are still many out there who have not jumped on the social media band wagon, and that's fine, but when your own grandparents and aunts and uncles are your Facebook friends, you know it's something that truly everybody is a part of. I know that I would not have been able to stay in contact with nearly as many people as I do today if it weren't for Facebook. It makes things that much easier and more convenient for us all. Some say it's a bad thing, but more find the positives in it, and I'm definitely one of those. Now I need to get back to checking FB and Twitter before I put an end to this night : ) 

“Sometimes we need to stop analyzing the past, stop planning the future, stop figuring out precisely how we feel, stop deciding exactly what we want, and just see what happens.”

Sex and the City, you're just too dang good. Do you ever come across quotes that do nothing other than inspire you? So many quotes that I read or hear have some way of coming into my life and inspiring me in one way or another. Based on my love for Sex and the City, I've heard this one a time or two before, but came across it once again tonight. At the perfect time. 

“Sometimes we need to stop analyzing the past, stop planning the future, stop figuring out precisely how we feel, stop deciding exactly what we want, and just see what happens.” - Sex and the City.

This quote couldn't be any more motivating at a time like this. After so much time spent knowing just what I want to do when I "grow up"...then not totally knowing...but then totally knowing...I've come to a point where I'm not sure whether I do know or not!? This past year, especially, has been weird for me. It hasn't been bad, just weird. Different. Lots of obstacles to face along the way, and I do like obstacles, but I think it comes to a point where one can only take so much, and then she just needs to stop to look around, and maybe even say no every once in a while. 

Just like the quote reads, sometimes we need to stop analyzing the past. What has happened in the past has happened, whether it be good or bad or something ultimately life changing, but there is nothing that we can do to change the past so we need to find a way to live with what the past has given us, and move on into the future. After all, I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, and even if we've made mistakes along the way, we take something and learn something from them to further help us in the future and lead us to where we want and/or need to be. 

We need to stop planning the future. This is hard for me. I have a hard time living day to day (heck, even hour to hour!) without having some sort of a plan. I need to learn, and am working at this, that sometimes it is alright to go with the flow and not have every second of every day of my life planned out. Based on what happens in my life each day, I suddenly plot out a whole new plan for my future and where I will be in how many years, etc. I have no idea where my life will lead me 6 months from now. How am I supposed to plan for that!? I of course want to have goals for my future, but to have it planned out to a tee (I'm talking where I live, where I work and in what position, being in another city, how soon kids will come...etc.) is probably something that I need to take day by day. What's meant to happen will happen, and it will be right for me, and if it's not, I'll figure out how to make it that way. (Side note...One thing I DO indeed know for sure, though, is that I will be married to the man of my dreams in less than NINE months!! :) ) 

Stop figuring out precisely how we feel. This is another tough one because lately I can't seem to figure out how I feel about a lot of things, especially with so many big life changes that have happened in the past year, all of which are beyond exciting, but it's still a lot to take in so fast! (No worries though, I know if there is one thing I do feel it is definitely EXCITED!!...Just trying to figure out all of the other emotions in the meantime! : ) ) 

Stop deciding exactly what we want. Again, I don't know what exactly I want anymore. Like I said, I tend to always think I have my whole life planned out, and I know exactly what I want and what I will have, but the way that things can change so quickly makes my opinion change on that as well. I honestly don't know exactly what I want with my life, like I thought I did, and for now, I'm just going to keep it that way. While I do what I can to figure out just what that may be, in the meantime, I'm just going to stick with not knowing for a while. Another new one for me, but for today, I don't think I really mind it all too much. I do know that ultimately I would love love LOVE to have my own event planning company, but that will take time, and lots of experience...so that leads me back to figuring things out along the way. (I also want to write a book! So that's two things right there I suppose :) ) 

And just see what happens. Here's where I just let life take hold of me and lead me in the direction I am supposed to be going. I'm going to try to not have a solid plan for once in my life and wait things out [for possibly the first time ever] and just see where life may lead. It's going to definitely take some time, and I of course know that I will not be able to say no to planning and deciding and analyzing for very long (It's in my nature...I can't just completely kick it to the curb ; )  ), but for today, it seems to be the best solution, and I think it will help lead me somewhere, wherever that may be. Oh the simple joys of [POSTGRAD] life, huh!? No one said it would be easy, that's for sure, but in the end, it will all be worth it. Life's a journey. Along the way, I'm going to just keep on living. And watching Sex and the City of course : ) 

If you don't like something, change it, and if you can't change it, change your attitude about it

I've been joking around an awful lot lately saying that I'll take my SEMO ADPi life back right about now...but a part of me is dying to be back there just for a little bit longer. I've waited and waited for graduation and being "grown up" and I really do love this exciting next step in my life, but I wish I had more time for FUN like I did in college! As I always mention, I am of course beyond excited for every step of the way getting to where I want to be in my life...but dang it sure is tough! No one said it would be easy, but my goodness. The grass certainly is not always greener on the other side that's for sure. The new job has been going well just a bit stressful at times, but that's too be expected. I am still open to any and all potential opportunities that I may come across along the way that will help lead me to where I really want to be. I've taken on so many new and big and important responsibilities since I graduated in May, and I think that they still have not all yet set in completely. It was a huge adjustment for me once everyone started heading back to school for the semester...and this time I just wasn't going. Instead of moving back into the ADPi house and preparing for recruitment I was starting my first full time job. While all of my friends and sorority sisters were worrying about what new girls were going to become members of ADPi, I was worrying about my first day of my new job, the new staff that I manage, benefits...stuff that I always heard my parents talking about...and from time to time thought about, but didn't realize how soon such things  would come. It seems like everyone always says this, but my biggest wish for each of you is to live each day and to live in the moment. I try so hard to do this myself, but sometimes it truly is so much harder than it seems, always wishing for something else, something more, something better. Especially to those of you in your senior year of college, make it your absolute best. I know I spent so much time focusing on job searching and getting things figured out my senior year, and I am glad I did, but I do certainly wish I could and would have spent more time realizing the fact that that was it. Now when I go back to SEMO for visits it will only be distant memories. It will be fun, but it won't be the same. But I will say right about now that a trip back to Cape is MUCH in need. I have not been back since the day after I graduated in May. That means I haven't been back in four months. That's the longest time I've gone without being in that town (despite my love/hate relationship with the town) in the past five years (aside from our drive through on the way to and from Memphis earlier this Summer). I am SO hoping that my job will allow me to go to Cape for Homecoming! College was a big part of my life, and it's a big part for many. I think that's one experience I will certainly never forget. I've experienced so many life changes in the past year, and I'm still trying hard to take everything in and figure everything out! I really love it when I stumble across good, inspirational quotes. I came across another one of my favorites today..."If you don't like something, change it, and if you can't change it, change your attitude about it." Something's gotta give here. Not quite sure what, but certainly something. I need to get back to figuring out this thing called life! Good luck to those of you trying to do to nothing other than the same! : )

My passion is people

I am officially about to start week 4 of my new job at the Westin St. Louis which means I am almost one month in! These past few weeks have gone by far faster than expected. I have so much to get used to when it comes to the new job, especially when it comes to the schedule! I work a variety of AM/PM shifts so my schedule varies daily...whether I have to be there by 6 am and am off around 3 pm or I go in around 3 and am off around 11 or midnight. There are advantages and disadvantages to both, but I think I prefer the AM shift (despite the fact that I don't exactly love waking up at 4am) because I like being home around 4 pm and having the rest of the day to get other stuff done. I am more of a morning person than I am a night person. Starting next week I think I will be starting to run my own shifts by myself! I am anxious yet excited about this all at the same time! Lot's of responsibility, but I am ready to take it on! This does mean, though, that I will likely be working a lot more of the pm shifts than the am shifts, but that's ok! I have enjoyed them both thus far...they are just two completely different atmospheres! Along with the crazy flexibility of the schedule, we don't necessarily get weekends off either...so this week for example, I was off yesterday and today...so that's basically my weekend, that of which will also be different each week. It's not a bad thing, just a lot to get used to!! As you all know my hopes are to one day be planning fabulous events (weddings, conventions, philanthropic, galas...all of the above!) so I clearly will be working many nights and weekends when called for which is something that I am expecting and ready to take on, but I do know that I will also have a fairly regular work schedule on top of that, while additionally coming in those nights and weekends for my events as needed. I am planning to continue to do everything in my power to work my way up to that point! I'm not sure how long it will take, but I think it will be worth it. And if I just so happen to find something else along the way that may even take me in a different path, I supposed I may accept that as well. Life is all about options and opportunities and I want nothing other than to experience these. It will certainly be (and already has been much of) a learning process along the way, but I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason and will somehow get me exactly where I wish to be. In the meantime, I plan to continue learning everything I possibly can to help get me there! I always hear that life is a journey...boy is that ever true. I shall continue to live each day for what it's worth! I tend to have a plan for everything in my life...whether it be on a day to day basis or for what I foresee in my future...but I am also beginning to learn that those plans are oftentimes not definite, and something even greater (or maybe not so great) may come up along the way, but, again, it's all a part of the process of getting there. I know what I think I want to be doing, but I may end up somewhere else doing something completely different than expected and loving it, but for now, I will continue with just what I think and hope for my future and see just where that may take me : ) 

Real life real soon

Well the new job officially starts on Monday! Wow! Everything in life is coming together and happening so fast it's almost hard to take it all in!  I truly could not be any happier to have all of the opportunities that I have been faced with over the past few months (or throughout my entire life for that matter)! My first shift begins Monday at 6 am. Hellloooo wake up call! My position at the Westin is the Outlets (Food & Beverages) Supervisor which means I will be overseeing the restaurant/bar/minibar/room service. Since both the individuals who were most recently in this position have been given promotions within the hotel, they need their new supervisors to start ASAP. The only problem is, they have yet to find supervisor #2 so I am diving right in! I feel like many of the things I do start out like this, yet I sort of like it because I'd rather jump right in and learn everything hands on (to some the hard way) as opposed to getting my feet a little wet and slowly learning the ropes. Don't get me wrong, there will be a lot of rope learning to be had in the next few weeks, but taking things face first will be the best way of doing it. It's going to be hard and probably a little rough at first, but to me that will only make things easier in the long run. There are two shifts a day for the supervisors and manager, one being 6 am - 2 pm and the other being 3 pm - 11 pm. Therefore, I am either working morning or night. It's kind of nice because the schedule will fluctuate and no matter which shift, I still have a full day to do other things whether it be in the morning or in the afternoon. It's certainly not a 9-5 job, that's for sure, but with what I want to do (plan events!) I might as well start getting used to it now! I will be saying goodbye to full fledged weekends for quite some time as we are given two days off each week, but it's always two different days (not your typical Saturday/Sunday weekend). I am excited about all of it though because it will be such a new and different experience and opportunity, and I cannot wait to see what it's all about! Luckily, I did not have to start in the midst of all of this weekend's Cards/Cubs madness downtown because with the Westin being directly across from the stadium, many people head there before or after the games. That would have been a lot to take in for day one with such a crazy downtown atmosphere the Cardinals and Cubs would have to offer! Although, it would have been fun because I was hoping to be downtown amidst all the madness, but they will be back in September so I am hoping to either some how snag some tickets, or hopefully I will be working! Since we get two days off each week, one of my two days off this week is somehow luckily Tuesday, which is my birthday! When asked which days I would like off, my manager suggested Tuesday may be a good day, and I proceeded to tell her that she was right, and that was my birthday : ) Lucky me! Not that I have any big plans for the big 2-3, but it will be a nice little present not having to worry about working that day! 
I can't wait to start off this new venture in my life! As always, I will of course keep you posted with more details. I was wondering when the next chapter in my life would officially begin, and I would say that this is it! I am going to be busy having a full time job, while also still doing some part time work with Performance Plus and Metromix whenever possible, but I am willing to make it happen (the same way I have done everything throughout my entire life!), and I cannot wait to see what outcomes these great continuing opportunities will bring me! 
Hello real life!! : )

I guess I am growing up after all!

Wow! So talk about change. These past few years have been full of change, but these last three months, since college graduation, have been nothing other than a great deal of positive changes in my life, and I could not be more excited and willing to take on every single one of them! After the most intensive interview process I have faced thus far, I've nailed a job : ) Wow! I have a full time job! With the Westin St. Louis! (and why yes, that is where Tim and I will be celebrating our marriage as well...better yet! That's just an added bonus :) ) I have accepted the position as one of two Outlets (Food and Beverages) Supervisors at the Westin! All of my hospitality studies in college have paid off : ) And what's better yet!? The two individuals whose positions I will be replacing are leaving these current positions because they were given promotions within the hotel! One of which will be moving to catering and events!! My goal and hope for the near future! What a great opportunity and what a great company to develop and grow with. There are so many great learning experiences and opportunities to come, and as always I am ready to take them on and see what comes of them! It's so hard to find jobs right now, and here I am with 2 part time jobs, an internship and a full time job offer! All the hard work throughout has certainly paid off, and it's finally showing in more ways than one. I sure do feel like one lucky girl. I don't want to get too excited because so many things are just perfect right now, and I honestly could not ask for more. I am beyond thankful for my family, my friends, life's challenges and opportunities and where I am in my life today, and each of these things has helped to lead me here. I'm starting to feel like I really am growing up after all. I guess I will be 23 years old in just over a week! Wow! Life is good : )

The [what seems like] never-ending process of getting there

More and more opportunities are on the rise. More than I ever would have imagined I would have at this point in my life. I originally thought I would graduate from college and come home to a full time job and begin my big girl life. Think again. Ok, so then once I realized that wasn't the case, I thought I would have the Summer to "figure things out" so to speak and maybe by the end of Summer...or the year...or next year perhaps?! I would finally have a job up my sleeve. Think again. Ok ok, so everything about this Summer and my [POSTGRAD] life is far different than what I could have expected. I currently have two part time jobs and an internship, all of which kind of seemed to fall into place at about the same time. On top of that, I have had interview after interview (the most grueling part of the entire process) while continuously submitting resumes and cover letters because I can't live off of part time jobs the rest of my life...I still need to find the real deal. So basically, I've been busy. (Oh yea...I'm planning my wedding too in case I've forgotten to mention that!) I'm doing the Marketing/Public Relations for Performance Plus by day and working with Metromix by night (and on weekends). I also recently gained another new opportunity as an intern with Cosmopolitan Events through which I get to work full day and night events and weddings. All of this is such great experience for where I want to be! But, like I said, I'm still on the search for a career, in hopes that all of these great opportunities and experiences will get me there along the way. I've had several more interviews and am hoping that some positive news will come of them. We shall see! Regardless, one of my best bits of advice to you is that the interview process in and of itself, despite the fact of how long and grueling it may be, is truly the some of the best experience one can get, no matter the outcome. I couldn't be more thankful for all of the different types of interviews I have already faced, and those that I know I will still continue to face in the future...whether it be now or later on down the road. It's such a great opportunity to learn so much about such different types of people and different companies and organizations, and overall, you come to learn a lot about yourself. I find myself comparing the career search and interview process a lot to sorority recruitment. Might sound weird, I realize, but if you are or have been vastly involved with both, you realize it's all one in the same. Life is a recruitment process. I thank God for playing such a big part in the sorority recruitment process while at school, because it has taught me SO much to help me get to where I am today. I am beyond thankful for all of these opportunities I currently have today because I realize I may have more than many [POSTGRAD] students may have just a month or two coming out of college, and I am thankful for the process it has and is taking to get me there, and for the hopeful opportunities to come in the [hopefully near] future. So many different things to think about, but in the meantime, all I can do is wait. And I suppose I will just continue on with living life in the meantime. : ) Take every opportunity you can get, even if it ends up only being one that you stick with for a month or even a week because the reason you may only be with it for that amount of time is because it likely will lead you to the next best thing. It's a never ending process. One that I (as always) am anxious to see more of. : )

Life has happened...or is in the process of happening at least!

Wow, it sure has been a while!! I currently feel as though I am busier right now than I was in college (but that's not accurate because my college days started around 8 am and lasted until about 2 or 3 am...It's not quite that bad). But I am finally starting to realize that real life is really upon me! I'm not sure when this realization hit. I've been waiting for it to come, and I still don't think that it will feel really real until I am working at a job from 9-5 (approximately) five days a week (and when everyone else starts to head back down to school, and I will remain here in St. Charles (for the time being anyway)). But for now, I have been busy trying to become a grownup. Yet I still use the phrase "...when I grow up..." to my Mom concerning all things I plan to do/have when I "grow up." I guess the time is starting now, and I'm just not starting to realize this. Weird! Some people get upset or depressed when they think about the fact. Somehow, I've been the odd one out when it comes to growing up. I'm excited. Beyond excited, and I have been for quite some time now. Strange?! I suppose it is sort of, but I am just so excited to see what great things my life has in store for me, and I am so excited to start a this new and exciting part of my life with Tim [and Bentley too of course :)]! It's not that I am not trying in all attempts to live each and every day to the absolute fullest, like I feel like I consistently have been preached and have consistently preached to others as well [along with not taking things for granted], but my entire life I have looked forward, and looked to see what potential opportunities could come out of wherever I may be going or whatever it is I may be doing. Just last night, Tim and I had this very talk at dinner. Discussing our future, and how exciting it will be our first night living together and making dinner together in a place to call our own, and where we will be in our career paths. Despite the fact that we may not be right where we want to be at the start of everything, whether it is within our jobs and careers or where we are living, it's a start to something new together, and it's all the more motivation to get us to where we really truly want to be. It might take time, but I have a feeling that it will pay off. I'm not sure when, but soon enough. In the meantime, I'm anxious yet excited for the adventures to be had along the way. Life's an adventure. Why not treat it like one!? SO many things have happened in the past few weeks (hence why I have had zero time for any new posts!) from working two part time jobs, to continuing the job search, interviews, spending time with family and friends, and of course wedding planning (PS - I bought my dress!!!...and wedding blog is to be coming soon I promise...again it's the time thing killing me here. Just not enough hours in a day!!). Anyway, my point is, I have come to realize that it's each of these things that is helping me to grow each day, and learn more about myself, and what I want most in my life and in my future and just how to get myself there. I'm working on it day by day! As always, I truly can't wait to see what comes next. It could be anything, and I'll take it with a grain of salt. I'm living life, and truly taking each day for what it's worth. I'm so thankful for my amazing family (dogs included of course), fiance, and friends, and I am even more thankful knowing that I have each of these to support me in what I want to do, and someone amazing to start the next step in my life with...together. I. can. not. wait. Here's to the future, and making it happen...in celebration of the so called [POSTGRAD] life : ) Best of luck to those of you who are in the same boat and doing nothing but trying to make it happen. I'm a firm believer that if you at least put your heart into it (and maybe give a little) something will work out in the end. And for me, I have a feeling it may not be exactly as I had always imagined in this so-called planned out life of mine, but I do have a feeling I will come to love whatever it is I find myself doing (which of course I hope that will be planning events someday ;) ), but we shall see! Looking forward to whatever the future may hold while trying my best to still live in today : )

A new opportunity!

If you're anything like me, you love to go to events of all sorts (big or small)...especially those that are cost friendly in this day and age...and take lots and lots of pictures of every aspect while you are there. That is one of my greatest passions, and I now have the opportunity to get paid while doing just that! As you all know, I have been searching for jobs and careers even since before I graduated from college. I am still currently working for Performance Plus while doing so, but I have recently stumbled across a great opportunity. After several applications and interviews that I have been through for numerous places in the past few months, I found out just last week that I have landed a spot on the Metromix St. Louis Street Team, and I could not be more excited for this opportunity! If you don't know what Metromix is, check it out by going to the link I have added in this post. Metromix STL provides people like us with details regarding all things St. Louis whether it be new restaurants to try, bars and clubs to go to, must see TV shows or movies, and fun and exciting local events! And the best part...the target public is geared towards individuals 21-35 who may not have a whole lot of discretionary funding (as a lot of us most likely don't right now with this job market!) so Metromix provides us with awesome deals and fun free and inexpensive things to do in St. Louis! Pretty cool, huh!? As a member of the Street Team, I will be a brand image by promoting Metromix, and I will also be taking tons of pictures at all of these events to be posted on the website and other places for you to see! Where will you 'get flashed'!? I will be going through training and hopefully starting within the next couple of weeks so I am beyond excited for this awesome experience! I will of course be telling you all about it. : ) WITH MY OBSESSION OF TAKING PICTURES EVERYWHERE I GO, MY OLD FAITHFUL SONY IS ABOUT ON IT'S LAST LIMB, SO I'M LOOKING INTO GETTING A NEW CAMERA SOON...AND FIGURED THIS WAS EVEN A GOOD EXCUSE : ) BUT in the meantime, I will be celebrating the rest of this 4th of July weekend with my family and fiance...experiencing my first time in jury duty next week...and going to Memphis with all of my best friends next weekend!! SO much to look forward to! Things are finally starting to fall into place : ) Enjoy the rest of this holiday weekend!! HAPPY 4th of JULY!!! : )

Applying...Applying...and [nevertheless] moooore Applying!

Random interesting fact of the day: It takes the average human being 6 months to a year to get a job. How lovely! It's so interesting to think that while you're in college you think that the day after graduation day you leave with your degree and a job lined up and waiting for you back at home or in another new, big city. I pretty much thought the same...until those last six months of college when my focus was on nothing other than my internship, graduating in 6 months (and ensuring that it was indeed going to happen with no faults or anything that may have miraculously been missed along the way!), and of course searching for jobs. I'm not really sure how many jobs I have applied for at this point, or just how many interviews I have had either. The process sure is way different than what I ever would have expected, but it certainly is reality now...to say the least. The job market is so different today than it was years ago...even if it was just five years ago! Today, we are pretty much taught that we will work for free for the first part of our career in order to get anywhere near what our dream job may be. My parents don't understand it one bit, and if I were them, I don't think I would either, but unfortunately that's just the way things are today. We even have to have multiple jobs and internships at one time in order to get the experience we want and need, while also making enough money to live [and have a little fun too of course because, well, we are still young and do only live once!]. It gets frustrating too when even friends who are still in college and have not graduated yet consistently ask what this new life is like and if we have this big corporate job now...and so on and so on...Honestly, its becoming more and more common for college students to graduate and live back at home with their parents for a while, while spending that first year [at least] looking for a job while at the same time most likely working their same Summer job they have come home to every year during college.That's not exactly where I want to be right now, per say, or where I thought I would even be the Summer after I graduated from college. That's what I'm doing right now, though, and I honestly couldn't be more thankful (and I can't believe I'm finding myself actually saying this). Thank God for my job at Performance Plus with my family that allows me to help out, make money, and spend as much time as I need focusing on the job searching and leaving for interviews anytime I need to. I guess I am lucky in that most part time jobs don't really give you that much flexibility which is beyond helpful and even necessary right now. I have had some recent interviews that have really excited me about so many opportunities so in the meantime, I'm going to continue what I've been doing, and keep on applying while I wait, just to keep all options open. The application and interview process is quite an experience in itself, so like everything in my life, I'm accepting all of it as a learning experience, and learning from it every step of the way. I'm confident that something will come sooner or later, and no matter what it may be, I'm going to learn something from it. I was given some great advice by an interviewer today, and that is to stay focused and don't lost track. Remember what my ultimate goal is and don't let these small challenges along the way force me to give up and lose focus. So, here I am, back at square one, but I am remaining focused and remembering that everything about this entire process is nothing other than a learning experience, and every step of the way is helping me to get from point A to point B in my life. Ohhh the beauty of [POSTGRAD] life. I can't say that I hate it though, like many people do. It's just the next step, and I've accepted that, and I'm ready, and have been ready, to take it on. I'm excited really. It's frustrating at times of course, but life's short. Just take something from it and move on to whatever may be next. As always, still looking forward to whatever it may be that is to come next in my life. : )


Good night, and happy job searching to all those out there doing the same! I wish you the best of luck, and hope you will do the same to learn from every step and not get discouraged from any cracks in the road. 


XOXO
Kasey : )

Oh the decisions to be made!

There are so many decisions to be made. Not just when it comes to wedding planning, but just with life overall! I have been applying for all sorts of jobs [POSTGRAD life is kicking back in...had to set back into reality sometime!] which is honestly kind of exciting because I like being able to see all of the different opportunities that are out there, especially in the field that I'm interested in. But Tim and I have been thinking a lot about our future because we will need to start finding a place to live within the next year too (which is really exciting!!), and like you all already know, we both really are extremely interested in living in Chicago. We've both been applying for jobs both here and there (and honestly anywhere at this point!). If either of us get something here then we will love it, but if either of us get something there, we will love it! There are so many amazing places to live in both cities, and both are cities that I absolutely love! I just love the idea of leaving STL for a couple of years just to experience other things because it's not like we will have such an amazing opportunity like that forever. 
We've been looking at lofts downtown in STL on Washington Avenue (in the Washing Ave. Loft District) which are honestly amazing, and it's such a neat area, but the thought of everything Chicago just makes me that must more intrigued to be there. I don't think I've ever had such a strong passion to get up and do something as I have right now to get up and move to another place and start my life fresh in a new, big, wonderful, amazing city. Everyone knows that Chicago is on my list of obsession cities. Just imagine living it! And I mean living in the heart of Chicago. I've talked to an old friend recently and got some advice from someone else I know who grew up in Chicago, all suggesting that we go for it while giving all sorts of suggestions of job opportunities, [local] things to do, transportation, and places to live. My desktop background is actually my fiance and I in Chicago with the amazing skyline and Lake Michigan behind us! 
I don't really know why I'm questioning it(I'm not actually ... I just feel the need to talk about it for some reason) because I obviously know where both of us really want to be and what we really want to be doing, but it just may take longer than we had hoped or expected to reach that goal. But I do know that I want to experience city life whether it's here or there because i've grown up my entire life in the suburbs of St. Charles, and I have loved everything about it and plan to raise my family in the future in a similar way, but for now, while we're still so young and free, I want to branch out. This has been my dream and where I've seen myself for a long time so now I just need to make it happen. I will truly be happy wherever I am, and I am anxious to see what opportunities arise either here or elsewhere, and I cannot wait to take them on with great determination as I would with anything else. And who knows (I'm a big dreamer) maybe wherever either of us do end up, we will have the opportunity to move up within a great company which may even take us to other great places. I just want to have the opportunity to explore other places that I have yet to experience to the fullest. I can always come back home. And I will. But for now, I want to explore new places. I am open to any and all new opportunities : ) Oh the decisions to be made!